Let me just say it: I do not like women who manipulate their feminine charms to the extent of being fake and distasteful.
For years, I thought I possessed the terrible sin of envy. I disliked pretty girls who attracted too much attention from the opposite gender, and I disliked it even more when they basked in that spotlight.
But being in an all-girl's school does give one a huge exposure to girls; you learn about the different kinds of girls, and of course, how to handle them. I have learnt that when it comes to the type of girls I loathe, it is not the pretty ones that cause my frustration, but the girls/women who manipulate their feminine charms. Yes, I mean whining, squealing, and acting weak (all the time).
Now, I am not saying that whining, squealing (and screaming), and acting weak are things we should never do. These are actions that every human being has done once--even for guys. But, they should not be used excessively, and using it at the appropriate moment is important. Squealing and speaking in a voice 5 notches higher all the time can come across as severely annoying- for girls at least.
I say that because I believe that all these feminine charms do exert a positive effect on guys; but honestly, it annoys the hell out of us women. Let me paint you a simple example. There is a guy, and two girls: A and B. (B for bitch.) Girls A and B are having a normal conversation, and they are speaking normally. When the guy joins them, A continues acting normal, but B's tone and attitude suddenly changes. She's nicer, her voice is significantly higher, and her behaviour more flighty. She tends to draw attention to herself by being considerably more feminine than A. Naturally, men being men, would give more attention to B. However, A would get annoyed at the sudden change in character.
(FYI, I am girl A most of the time. Now, why can't some girls understand that you don't have to act all feminine to attract the guy?)
It is not wise for women to manipulate their feminine charms on a consistent basis and get on their girlfriends' nerves. Furthermore, playing this tactic does not guarantee getting the guy as well! Lastly and most importantly; these women would be labelled as "slut" in many other women's minds. Trust me, that is not a nice thing. You cannot just deal with guys; women are part of your everyday life too. If you just concentrate on satisfying the men to the extent of annoying your fellow women, life won't be good for you darling.
In my years of being in an all-girl's school, I have come across certain girls that do attract the guys, but have not annoyed me. They are just themselves; and that is cool. These girls can get along with both genders, which is a very important tool in the working world. After all, there is an increasing number of women in the workforce!
Moral of my rant: Stay cool, fellow friends.
